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Sunday, May 17, 2009

Learning to survive a nightmare

 

Since I completed all the milestones at work two week earlier than the deadline, I sent an email to my boss for a monthly review on Tuesday. 

In the meantime, I relaxed over the weekend somewhat. Did laundry, grocery shopping and catching up with Xanga blog reading, and of course sleep.  Also watched part of the LA Laker / Houston Rocket basketball final.  LA beat Houston by 19 points.   This is the first and only ball game I have watched this year.  Since I am from LA and my boss came from Houston, what a sweet revenge.   

I also start reading and digesting advise from Chris and Matt (Thanks, guys!).  I went to two bookstores and could not find the books recommended, so I bought a book called "Monster Boss - Strategies for surviving and excelling when your boss is a nightmare".

At least, it seems there are many monster bosses besides mine, and there are people suffering monster bosses just as I am.  Glad to know I am not alone!  After answering a series of questions, the book labeled my boss as a Bigfoot, Dracula, and Argus. Hope these picturs are not giving you nightmares! 

 bigfoot dracula Argus_Rising_

Now I just have to learn how to slay the monsters or tame them.  Back in my mind, I am ready to resign and become an independent consultant.  I have enough money for a conformable life and I am working just as a hobby anyway.  This incident is almost like a ego trip for me to learn how to deal with difficult bosses, and show her I am not as bad as she thinks.  In the second case, it maybe a lost cause already!  We will see during Tuesday meeting with her. 

This is a challenge that make life interesting as long I do not get eater by the monsters! 

 

 Posted 5/17/2009 10:28 PM - 58 Views - 24 eProps - 12 comments

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ROTFL!!  Great pics to go with the image of a monster boss....I can understand the monster boss issue and pray it gets better for you... good to have options too, glad you've a plan...'Til The next
Posted 5/18/2009 12:31 AM by GracePrince Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Don't make any rash decisions. Now is not a great time to start a new job!
Posted 5/18/2009 1:58 AM by CareyGLY Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I agree with Carey!
Posted 5/18/2009 10:08 AM by Dezinerdreams Xanga True Member - reply

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You ROCK!  What a great attitude, and good for you finishing so quickly AND enjoying your weekend. 
Posted 5/18/2009 5:57 PM by jojobaDESIGNS Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Everyone you work with is another person.  If you can try to understand them on a one-to-one level, understand what motivates them, you'll find the key to a good working relationship.
Posted 5/18/2009 8:04 PM by christao408 Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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You are a lucky guy, how many people can say that work is just a hobby? Since you are not dependent on the job for a living, you should seriously consider leaving if the situation does not improve. The important thing is to be happy and if the "hobby" is making you miserable, get a new hobby!
Posted 5/18/2009 8:37 PM by icepearlz Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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i agree with christao. everyone you work with or for is a person. all the different personalities and characteristics of these individuals will only play to your benefit if you take the time to understand them. Given that not all people are worth that kind of effort, but if it's new, it's worth giving it a shot before moving on.
Posted 5/19/2009 3:42 AM by japoki56 Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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"working as a hobby..." wow, that new. wish i could say the same thing.
Posted 5/21/2009 10:12 PM by rudyhou - reply

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Here's another link that might have interesting tips.

http://money.cnn.com/galleries/2007/bing/0705/gallery.bosses_types_bing.fortune/index.html
Posted 5/22/2009 2:36 PM by ElusiveWords Xanga True Member - reply

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glad you are writing here again =p
Posted 5/23/2009 8:21 PM by lcfu - reply

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Monsters are actually reflection to some kinds of Human behaviour??? Facing with the monsters is one of our daily routine....or preparing us to be another one??? Anyway enjoy our week-end and recharge...
Posted 5/24/2009 4:12 PM by agmhkg Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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You sound as if you have a grip on the situation.  Much better than the other way around!  It's nice to hear your positive take on things.    :)
Posted 5/30/2009 10:30 AM by jojobaDESIGNS Xanga Premium Member - reply


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